May 16, 2011

The Shortcomings Of Being Tall





Bag-Sarojini Nagar as mentioned here.





Yes, You are looking at my behind!

Skirt- Forever New
I really like the cut of this skirt, it`s very structured. Also love the pockets and of course the bow at the back!!
Top- Janpath, bought two years ago.
Black (somewhat) pumps- Vansons
They are nothing compared to the love of my life


So, if you grace this blog with your presence often, you might be wondering why I have a title that seems to  reflect my (apparent) problem with my height. But I am sorry, okay. I have issues with it.

I wore heels..not even full on pumps, just a little heel to a get together recently, and as soon as I entered all I could hear were moans. No they were not people moaning at how amazing I looked.
My friends were complaining and repeatedly asking me "WHY ARE YOU WEARING THOSE'' & "DO YOU LIKE TO MAKE US FEEL BAD?" 

Well what am I supposed to do if they are..well SHORT? I want to wear heels, Hell I want to wear PUMPS. All The Time. I like how they look okay, and they give me good posture.

But no. I cant, without looking like the BIG (somewhat)FRIENDLY GIANT. And yes, this would be the place for people to say, why are you complaining, you are so tall. Whats the big deal? ( I`am 5'8, if I have failed to mention before.)

Don`t get me wrong, I love how tall I am. It does have its numerous advantages. But then the pitfalls include not being able to wear the kind of footwear you lust after. And if I happen to wear them once in awhile, I get all the girls really whiny and the guys absolutely HATE the fact that I am taller than them. Once this guy friend came over before we were heading out for a party, when he saw I was wearing heels, he wouldn't budge from my house until I changed into flats, or anything that wouldn't make him look like a midget!

Anyway, the grass is always greener on the other side right? Girls with curly hair want straight hair, girls with straight hair want to curl their hair all the time.

But I don`t even WANT to reduce my height or anything. Why cant other people be taller. OR why don`t they wear heels as well!? 

Sorry for this incredibly RANDOM and VAIN post. The next one will be about a very socially relevant and pressing issue. 
Okay, who am I kidding? It`ll be about fashion. But no, seriously the two will be connected. Promise!


Is there anyone else who has a hang-up like mine? You really want to wear something/do something but JUST CANT? Or am I the only lunatic that cant be thankful for what she has?

Yeah thought so.




54 comments:

  1. LUNATIC! :p

    I would give anyyyything to be tall! Speaking of which, how tall are you?! :p

    p.s - loove the skirt <3

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  2. Love this one !!! Dude i have the same exact problem. I am not as tall as you but i am around 5'7...i cannot for the life of me wear heels...its really irritating..i just dont like towering over people...

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    1. Cannot agree more! And to add to the topic "shit i ve been hearing" is when one of my hubby's relatives asked me, why do I have the need to buy heels(it wasnt even a 2 inch pump)when I am so tall(I am just 5'6"). Well, I have my likes/dislikes. But I didnt say that to her. Also, when people deliberately ask me "what's your height?", I say 5'6". And they are like "i am pretty sure you are much taller than that. ". Oh really- so you have an inch tape glued to your eyes? I feel awkward when I walk into a party/family function and everyone's like "OMG! How tall is she" or
      "You've grown taller than the last time I saw you".. Please ppl, human body stops growing after 20. I am freaking 28!!!Yikes, now that makes me feel so old.. Gee!

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  3. haha "big somewhat friendly giant"
    hehehehe
    anyway...you are lucky to have that great height complimenting that great body...so make full use of it...
    STAND TALL AND BE THE DIVA THAT YOU ARE!!!

    loe your post!!!

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  4. Awww...I feel your pain. At 5'6'' all I've wanted is to be two inches taller! I usually wear wedges to school cause I hate how my pants fit in flats!!!!!! *Sigh*
    - D

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  5. I say screw the moeffin world.
    A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. Embrace! the fact that you're tall, by looking even taller if you should. :D

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  7. My dream height was 5'9. :D
    But now I'm kinda happy with 5 inches short of that because I get to wear my 5 inch heels without the fear of 'looking too tall'.
    :D

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  8. Love the look :) And I'm 5-6 and a half but I don't usually give a damn and wear heels anyway :P Like someone before me said a girl's gotta do what they gotta do! :)
    XX

    http://fortheloveoffashionandotherthings.blogspot.com

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  10. I probably had issues like you do some time back ... I think I have made my peace. So I am okay with being 5'4 :P ... But you get out there and wear your heels. Let the world look miniature. Their problem now yours, right? :)

    But I do love my straight hair, oily skin (no wrinkles), and curvy butt ;) What you gonna do, right? :P

    ♡ from © tanvii.com

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  11. being 5'8 myself, i completely understand the feeling!

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  12. well i'm not even eligible to comment here..m one of those short people!!

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  13. ah..i like your top(doesn't look like a janpath find,lucky you)..also goes well with the skirt:)
    And really why are you that tall?!..heheh i kid.
    but in all serious i understand where you're going with this but also remember that the shorties would give what-not to get your height.;D

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  14. aww....!! dats a grr8 ht...n 4get abt others wen u wnt 2 wear heels....
    i <# d dress...specially d skirt (such a cute bow dat is..!!!)

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  15. Ok, start with, I love love love that skirt. ITs adorable. Nice flashy pink with a bow and it fits your perfectly.

    And I totally understand what you're saying about the height, I am 5'7.5'' myself and hate it when people growl at me for wearing heels. I don't feel comfortable myself when I am holding everyone by the shoulders in pictures. Haha! But yah, I am trying to make peace with it and started collecting nice flats! :P
    Well one good advantage of being fat: nobody notices a little weight gain. Haha! Thats whats saving me :P

    Maybe we should make a group of tall women and all wear the heels we lust for and go out and not be moaned at and feel great! ;)

    Post more often, look forward to it.

    Love.
    x

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  16. LUNATIC.!!!
    You will look lovely no matter what height!!
    But tall people are lucky :)
    <3 your skirt and pumps.

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  17. Such a cute skirt...love the color & cut. U have nice legs ;)

    U are a lunatic ;p. Who cares what people think?! Wear what u like

    ♥xx♥

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  18. Oh my God. You are awesome.
    I finally find someone hacving the SAMEEEE problem as me. I agree to every damn WORD you've written in here. :D

    Oh BTW, your legs, man. SEXY!

    Cant help but follow you :D

    http://musingsofjustanothergirl.blogspot.com/

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  19. This post really made me smile. For most people the grass is always greener on the other side. I'm almost 5'6" & I've always wished I was taller. But all that was due to self esteem issues & I've made peace with my height. I have a friend who's 5'7" & often wears platform heels. Her husband is shorter than her (without heels) & doesn't mind in the least. I say ignore everyone else & do what you want. You only live once, right?

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  20. BIG (somewhat)FRIENDLY GIANT. LOL.
    u know what that reminds me off? hagrid :p

    and btw thanks for this vain and random post. it has me in fits of laughter ;P

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  21. Haha!! I'm totally envious of uor height.. yep, grass is alwyas greener on the other side and i wanna be on yours!

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  22. Just like you commented on my blog "It is not aesthetically pleasurable to look at the doles of fat", I find its not aesthetically pleasurable to look at tall girls:-)

    Please get past the weight/height ‘non’ issue because fashion and beauty have truly nothing to do with it. And maybe then you will be happy with yourself.

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  23. haha, but plz dont say that. I am going through a phase nowadayz , atleast once a day i wish i was taller. sigh..
    great blog sweets!!

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  24. well, i like the top and ur bag...and thankfully i dont have any issues with my girl friends being taller and wearing heels!!
    most of my close (girl) friends have been on the taller side and posing with them makes me look like pixie and i always get the benefit of people thinking that am their younger sister/niece or something!!...

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  25. I loove the top. The bag, you get in Colaba Causeway in Mumbai too. And yes, I checked out your bum. :P

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  26. Come on..half the world is crying over the fact that they are not tall and there you are..just get a taller boy ;) noone will complain..
    sexy behind btw :)

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  27. haha this was funny!
    I love your top. and I used to have this problem earlier.. when I stayed in Delhi and other parts mainly North and East.. Thankfully, here in Hyderabad most of the girls I know are around 5'10" and guys wayyy taller..and I am pretty short at 5'8" in front of them.. Though my best friends are tiny and wont let me wear heels!:)

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  28. i love this oufit.. the skirt and the top, its awesome!

    check out my giveaway for valorie envelope style clutch and glamour tshirt: http://raindropsofred.blogspot.com/2011/05/first-ever-giveaway.html

    xoxo

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  29. Hahaha! Reminds me of my taller best friend who always had issues wearing heels!

    I'm extremely contented with my own height since it enables me to wear skyscrapers for heels! =) But it was different a few years back when I was sort of craving for height.

    In any case, I agree with Sonali. Beauty is but skin deep. ;)

    Love the skirt with the big bow!

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  30. magnifique, j'adore, et la jupe est vraiment très jolie

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  31. Love the shape of the skirt!

    Jonna xx

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  32. I have a hang up like yours. I'm a short guy who wishes they had heel-like shoes so that I wouldn't feel so short all the time :P

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  33. HAHAHAHHA you're so funny !

    WEAR THEM.

    the outfit looks amaaaazzzing, too cute, i love it.

    wear them when you want to... tell your friends to get really high killer heels..and the guys too

    5"8 is such an awesome height

    i have this best friend who's 5"9.. so i can understand what your friends go through. it hurts the self esteem at times!!! lol

    but then, we shorties have our own advantages ;)

    don't worry, look hot - wear pumps

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  34. And I adore the skirt.

    Aditi,
    http://mysartorialsecrets.blogspot.com/

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  35. Aaaa I'm jealous! I'm on the short side and very often I wish I was just a few inches taller! But just like you said, the grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side.

    Love the skirt! It looks great on you.

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  36. "do you want to make us feel bad!!" that cracked me up.. it so happens here...

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  37. wish i was taller but just work it!! id wear 5 inch heels even if i was super tall! love the skirt though xxo

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  38. pretty skirt! i love that tee shirt! =)

    http://pinkchampagnefashion.blogspot.com/

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  39. haha... even at 5'5 i used to feel "too tall"! you can imagine how short my friends were... :P

    with heels i would be 5'8 and my friends gave me such a hard time that i completely stopped wearing heels (i was stupid i know!). After living in flats for 4yrs and almost completely forgetting what heels feel like... am back to wearing them now!! luckily my guy is 6' ;)

    Wear ur heels proudly! Dont give 'em up! :)

    TheGirlAtFirstAvenue

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  40. Ah you know what. I'm going to tell you a secret as to WHY short people don't wear heels.

    They don't find any their size.
    Seriously I have searched all over India, and gone through countless brands to find absolutely NONE.
    So next time you want them to wear heels and feel as tall as you, go shoe shopping with them. You shall be depressed for life.
    Trust me, Indians somehow get this weird notion that we shorties are human enough to wear shoes. Oompa Loompas maybe?
    Forget heels. Do you have ANY fucking idea as to HOW hard it is to find closed shoes in my size?
    I figure not.
    So bless your stars for being tall and please forgive yourself for EVER wishing that others 'should be taller or something'.

    Poof. You know what. This is last fashion blog I am ever going to read. You judge too fast about things you don't know about.

    Bye.

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  41. @ Artemisia D.
    I am sorry my post on tall-ness offended you. And i am sorry that i did not include short ppl who have smaller foot-sizes/cant find their size. But the post was an observation(a very random and not to be taken extremely seriously observation) abt MYSELF and my friends and i dont really know ppl who are short and also have the trouble of finding shoes in an appropriate size. THUS i did not mention it. Hope you dont judge too fast, about things u dont know abt :)

    Also hope it doesnt actually put u off ALL fashion blogs.

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  42. You look nice with all your height and heels.

    http://dreamfit.blogspot.com

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  43. we always want what we cant have. im short with straight hair. id love to be tall with curly hair. lol

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  44. loving that gorgeous skirt! i would LOVE to be 5'8!

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  45. i love the i cant afford to <3 ny teeeeee... i loveeeeeeeeeeeeee...

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  46. I soooo relate to what you just said about being tall!!! I'm 5'10 so imagine my plight when I never get any thing long enough to cover my butt & don't even get me started on the shoes!! my size is possibly extinct in India(size 10,I know right??) & even if I do find a decent pair of pumps I look taller than most guys!!

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  47. I'm not as tall as you. I'm only a little over 5'6", but unfortunately for me, most guys I know are just around my height, when I'm in flats. So they're always cribbing. But I don't really care, and wear 4inch high heels anyway. It's my leg. I'd like to dress it any way I like. Those who don't like it can maintain a safe distance.

    And to Ms. Artemisia D., I really don't know where you look for shoes. My friend is a size 4 and she is ALWAYS in 6inch pumps. I'm sure she doesn't make her shoes herself.

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  48. Hey!
    Okay, girls I am almost 5.10!
    At times, it does feel bad, that you can't wear what you want to, but hey! aren't the benefits double, the lil problems that we face.
    the best is, that you know you'll have a tall bf by your side! ;)
    :)

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  49. Heyy...I m 5.11...i wear prob a 2 inches heels once in a while...but en am a lil on d clumsy side so cant risk it..prefer sticking to flats :) ...but its so diff to get jeans/comfy shoes in my size(size 41) ...girl its grt to b tall,d ppl who make u self cons r mostly defensive abt they bn midgets!

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