Hello People. Yes I am still around. Just low on inspiration. There is only SO much you can talk about fashion no? I mean, there are other things going on. Anyway, lets leave that discussion for later.
I am quite a finicky person. I have things that irritate me. As I would think other people have as well. So every week, I want to talk about things that have just
Pissed Me Off. You can agree/disagree/get offended or anything in the comments below and lets have a discussion!
1. Shit People Say To Me
The amount of weird things people say to me, would
need an entire book. You all will know when that one comes out!
One thing that REALLY gets to me is - my Toe Rings.
I have been wearing silver toe rings since I was in class 8 I think. Our school had an extremely strict no jewellery policy. The earrings girls wore could not dangle, if they did they would be confiscated. Those were simpler times, when my friends and I were obsessed with silver, and the price of silver wasn`t touching the sky.Since we couldn't wear nice earrings, we decided to get silver toe rings, since they were only visible when we took our shoes off, and that was seldom, And teachers never saw those.
For some reason mine have been on since then. I have obviously changed then etc but I have been wearing them since then. They represent absolutely NOTHING other than my love for how they look. That.is.IT
Poor old me, having been brought up in a completely non-religious, nontraditional house and family, knew absolutely NOTHING about what simple toe rings could represent.
So there I was, in my teens, still in school, changing after a swim in one of Delhi`s very posh clubs. And the female attendant asks me "Are you married?" That was the first WTF moment for me. I was 15! Yes I was tall for my age, BUT COME ON. When I asked her why on earth she would say that, she said its cos I was wearing toe rings.Not just on ONE foot, but on BOTH! My God. I have seen those toe rings married women wear, but I am sorry mine were waayyy better looking than those. Those are just so ugly with little thingies coming out of them.
That moment then prepared me for endless questions as to why I wear them, I shouldn`t wear them, urging me to shout a big fuck off to anyone and everyone who would say it.
Recently the most bizarre and amusing thing happened. I was in a skin clinic, getting a treatment done, and the practitioner asked me the same damn question.
"Are you married?" After rolling my eyes, in my head I said no, I just wear them cos I like it, etc etc. Then she says "Oh, okay cos you don't look married"
Now here is my question -
what the crap does a married woman LOOK like?
Okay many people, specially Indians have their regular marks, sindhur, mangalsutr, chooda for newly weds,(all of which are so ugly and I despise so much) but take those away, then what does a married woman look like?
Is it judged by her body language? The way she behaves? Seriously. The people and mindsets of this country leave me completely flabbergasted.
2. Bringing Children To Watch COCKTAIL?
I recently saw cocktail. It was fun. The first half at least. The second half was bull shit. No, not cos of the movie. Because there were two little girls RUNNING around the ENTIRE hall screaming their fucking little lungs out. WHO the HELL brings their children to such a sexually charged movie? What do you think, they`ll enjoy it? Love the way Deepika Padukone snorts her coke? Or admire her legs? What the hell dude!?
Movie going experiences in India are so extremely shitty cos parents cannot even THINK of not bringing their brats to the theater and because stupid theaters will ALLOW children to come into the hall, when the movie is clearly inappropriate for them. I always complain about this and people around me say, so what are they supposed to do, leave their kids at home?
YES OF COURSE leave your damn toddlers at home rather than exposing them to a movie which talks about sharing partners. Or if you can`t leave them at home how about not watch the damn movie and wait for the dvd. Which would you prefer? Miss the hottest release of the week or the moral ruination of you child?
Yeah you`re right, that IS a tough choice!
Not to mention the shit other people have to endure thanks to your inane decision of bringing a kid to the hall
I was going for the 5th or 6th Harry Potter movie once, and this infant was brought in. What the hell will this child understand of the movie when he hasn`t even been alive long enough to know what the hell it is all about.
3."Cocktail Was Bad"
All the people complaining that they had such high expectation of cocktail and it didnt live upto it. Oh come on, It is JUST a movie, not a surgery. Have fun while you can and get over it. And these are the same people who would`ve thoroughly enjoyed the two sex and the city movies, just for the clothes, and the locations and wouldn`t even have realized that the stories in both the movies was quite shitty.
Carrie goes through a problem with Bigg but it`s all okay in the end
Samantha has sexual problems
Charlotte has family problems
Miranda is cheated upon and in the second one I don't know what minute story line she had
( if I have spoiled the movie for you, too bad they`ve been out for over 4 years now)
But the same logic isn`t applied in cocktail, which also has some amazing clothes and great locations, and also it has it`s funny moments.
4. Paying For Swatches
And lastly the thing that pissed me off this week was paying for swatches. As a fashion student I have to keep buying different swatches and samples of various types of cloth. And if you know Delhi markets well and have any interest in clothing manufacturing you would know that the biggest (and most expensive) cloth shops are in Nehru Place. Shops like H.P Singh and Textures are quite popular.
But they charge STUDENTS Rs40 - Rs 300 for 25cms of cloth. Just for sampling. We`re not even working in factories, we`re students! Of an acclaimed government college. What the hell kind of profit will you make form us? I had sworn I will NOT give in to this kind of exploitation and will not go to these shops. But I sadly cracked under workload pressure and did what goes against all my principles. Spent and wasted money on cloth that will never be used again!

My swatches that cost me over a Grand
What pissed YOU off this week?
Do you think was wrong in any of these situations?
Tell me what you think!